My soulful thoughts

   👫💖💑      ARRANGED MARRIAGE AND ITS FLAWS.💞                                           Isn't arranged marriage the biggest relationship gamble, a puzzle, a guessing game that both families play?          Truly it depends on luck, their faith and belief that “marriages are made in heaven”.       It is interesting to note that we are taught our entire life not to believe in strangers and suddenly we find ourselves with a stranger with whom we are expected to spend the next entire life with. Mine was an arranged marriage. When my marriage was fixed , I was surely excited, but, I also had feelings of anxiety, fear, confusion, cold feet all at the same time.       Arranged marriages and the way they are fixed and executed have seen a lot of improvements in the last many years.       In the earlier days, childhood marriages were very common. The couple grew together in their innocence not knowing then the meaning of love or even having the age maturity to understand the

                            👉👉👉    REPUTATION   👩👨            Don’t we live in a world where we need to build, maintain and protect our reputation? Good reputation opens wider doors for us. It is the sad truth that status and reputation is highly recognized in today's world. It is especially important to build a trustworthy and reliable professional reputation as that very much adds to the success in our career. It takes quite some time and lot of efforts to build our positive reputation in the market. Our reputation decides our value and our worth at our work place. We would be lying when we, common working people say, “I don’t care what anyone says or thinks about me”. We may say this many times but do we really mean it? We are tied up with the professional pressures and are forced to abide the rules. Most of us resist change and don’t have the courage to put our earned reputation at risk. For most of us, our overall work image and reputation at the time of retirement